A teaching and collective ritual container for tending to the ancestral mother wound

For many of us, Mother is our first heartbreak. Ripped from the womb. Taken from the dark.

You don't have to be a mother to know this wound. We all come from mother. And so many of us come from a long line of women who could not be held, who were not seen, who were not embodied in their medicine, who were not safe in their bodies, who turned their grief inward, who passed their unmetabolized pain down through the line.

The Death Mother is an archetype born from that grief. She carries the demons of unprocessed pain passed down through generations. She appears through self-hatred and self-abandonment, through jealousy, through outsourcing our power, through inheriting our Mother's pain, our grandmother's pain, our collective suffering. She holds the pain of never being safe to be seen. She is what we inherit when love curdles into survival. She is where we have been searching for mother in the dark, in toxic places, in unsafe people, without a light or a road map.

And there is another Scorpionic layer. So many of our grandmothers, the women in our lines, could not be in right relationship with their medicine and their gifts. It was not safe to be vulnerable. It was not safe to be in their power. It was not safe to realize their gifts. They were not allowed to be fully realized. The ways this turned inward and turned against other women. The fears of persecution. The jealousy. The competition. The medicine woman on medicine woman violence. The witch wound that lives in so many of our relationships with women.

This is the heartbrokenness of the grandmothers. And it lives in us.

When we tend to the ancestral nervous system, the collective Death Mother energy softens. And this ripples throughout our psyche, our relationships, our lives.

Where is Mother? Mother? Mother? Mother.

In these last weeks of the North Node in Pisces and South Node in Virgo, there is a collective invitation to release the Death Mother energy that has lived so long in the Virgo continuum, the self-criticism, the not-enoughness, the grief over medicine that was never allowed to land. We are being called, collectively, to surrender into Mother. To tend her.

This is an introduction to ancestral tending, to tending to the grandmothers as powerful allies, and to learning how to feed the ancestors. As much of an introduction as a natal Scorpio Moon can offer on a Scorpio moon, which is to say we will go deep.

Thursday, June 25, 2026 1:00 pm – 3:30 pm PST Exchange: $77

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Want to go deeper one on one? Visit Dagara Divinations or Ancestral Healing and the Mother/Father Wound.